Yesterday S had promised to go out with me riding but at the last minute she said her horse is too wild at the moment. Normally she doesn't ride at all in the Winter but this year for the first time she did.
Despite how Summery the first week of April was, remember I had some great first rides at home that week, April disintegrated into non-stop fickle.
Yesterday, Easter Monday (that's a holiday here) it snowed. Then rained, then hailed, and then the sun came out, just to start hailing again.
Since I was pretty upset about S cancelling on me -- Mag has been home since April 1st and this would be my first chance to go riding with someone -- my husband offered to come along to check some geocaches in our neighborhood.
After my last horrible ride I decided to go back to the very place Mag was so upset. And he wasn't much better this time *sigh.*
He was balking at the same stumps as last time, and when I'd let him stop to take a look, he'd start to slide sideways or back up again, which I corrected vocally, "Mag, quit!"
I wanted J to see this new sign in the woods, placed by the hunters, which had a photo of hikers, dogs walkers, and an actual geocache, like, "We know about you people." Mag was not interested in the sign at all and wanted to leave the area now!
After I finally got him holding still for a moment, I dismounted and insisted he stand there for quite a bit longer. His frantic escape behavior disappeared as soon as I was standing on the ground facing him, saying "Stand there!"
Then I got back on for the ride home and I can't say he was much better that direction. Ugh. I rode him all the way home, including on our street, as uncomfortable as that makes me, because I know my problems are not necessarily Mag's problems. But having J to talk to really helps.
Today, J offered to go out with me again, wherever I like. I definitely wanted to try a different area this time, after having two bad times down by the ponds.
When I went out to saddle Mag, I ran back in the house, "It's FREEZING OUT THERE!" and right then it started snowing, with wind gusts blowing it horizontally. I was so tempted to not do it - Mag has very little hair coat and is really sensitive to cold. But my husband just said, "Dress warmer." OK.
Poor Mag almost froze to death as I tacked him up, his butt tucked. I couldn't warm his bit cuz my hands were frozen so I put it on my stomach.
The snow turned to hail and the wind whipped us as we headed out. WTH were we doing out there?
J checked his geocache and Mag was very curious about that, and I purposefully led Mag through the thickest parts of the woods so he'd feel the branches. Then I had to pee so J held Mag and I said, "Guys, don't watch!" but Mag found it to be the most interesting thing he's seen in his short life, and couldn't stop staring at me. I had to laugh later cuz he peed and I politely did not watch.
Then I got on and the three of us walked through the prettiest woods, the best trail around, it's way less hilly than all the others, and it's a forestry road with mostly soft footing, and great visibility all around. The woods are really dark there with pines, it's a special place. And somehow those pines sheltered us from the storm. It was peaceful in there.
I joked to J that this trail is what sold Mara. It's where her new owner fell for her, riding the first time.
For some reason Mag was fine today. Totally relaxed, his attention divided between listening to me, and watching what J would do. If J would stop, he'd stop. Then I rode ahead and even trotted a few paces, but Mag needs easyboots and tripped twice on the rocks.
He was able to stop today and just hang out, so we gave him some cookies and then we were done.
J said the problem yesterday is likely the trail itself, it's down in a hole and runs along a creek that connects several fish ponds with each other, and we pass them one by one. I think he might be right cuz I've never had a good ride down there, not even on Mara.
So I'm gonna let that trail go for a while and work in kinder locations. Eventually I'll be back though cuz it's one of the closest trails to our home. (And it connects my neighborhood with that of the couple with the nice arena and the TB and Arabian - who promised they'd start taking their horses for walks to get them used to being out, but have not done it yet, apparently.)
As we passed our pasture I said I wanted to let Mag graze for a while as a reward, and I stood in the fickle weather with him, alternatingly freezing and not, when the sun would come out. As Mag ate up as many dandelions as he could, I suddenly realized his spine and hips were not as prominent as they had been these last few months, that double bump on his butt is gone completely, and there are finally no sign of his ribs! I can't believe it. All those buckets must have helped. And if they hadn't, I would have no other ideas. Right now he gets one big bucket of beet pulp and alfalfa pellets twice per day, that's a lot of wet food. I'm so thrilled I have to show a comparison photo.
December with full Winter coat, his ribs were always visible, regardless of inhale/exhale.
Today in the freezing cold, with his very light Summer coat. I felt so bad making him stand there while I took photos!
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I'm glad that you had a good ride on Mags. Your husband gets major points for going with you. :) I'm thinking that there smells or sounds there that he doesn't like. I would only hand walk him there and ride the other trails until you two are feeling more confident.
Also, I'm not sure that S would be a good trail companion - she sounds a little high strung.
Mags is looking good. I'm thinking that it's also muscle because of the work that you have been doing.
Teresa, how funny, that is exactly what I just said to my husband! I said, "I think you're right about that trail being bad news, so I'll just hand-walk Mag down there and ride him in other places." : ) Teresa, although I think you're right about S, I cannot be picky about my riding partners because S is the only one I trust - she's extremely careful and has some of the best trail etiquette I've experienced - for example, asking me how we want to approach streams. Her carefulness has the side effect that she just doesn't ride all Winter, and has to start over each year with a fresh Arabian horse, who is not reliable even in good weather, I am afraid to say. I do have one other acquaintance with an Appaloosa but she rides the opposite - without concern for safety and her horse bucks and fights her repeatedly, and I get the feeling she resents having to hold her horse back for me, so I quit asking. The last option I have is the "fancy arena couple" but they have never ridden outside their arena! So, it's S or nothing. And S is an hour away by foot/hoof, so it's not convenient to hook up. It's really depressing when I look around my neighborhood at all the horses, that's exactly why I had to board this Winter - I needed help and had no one.
Once I get out there and start riding longer distances, I hope to run into people and make friends. It's really hard for me to read blogs where people have the very resource I lack - people - helping them or at least being there. But I will be sure to tell J what you said, he really does try. "Trot! Just trot!"
I have finally heard back from my Wuppertal trainer, Kati, and she apologized for not getting in touch all month, she had personal problems, she explained. I hope I can count on her, because I've been let down by so many trainers in the last years. Lukas, Katharina, Mell, Katrin - 3 of the 4 said they couldn't help me anymore, 1 of them was so unreliable I couldn't get her here. I'd be tempted to think I'm the problem, but I think good mobile trainers are hard to find.
Muscle you say? I see a little bit (I actually saw a vein last month, a vein!) but I never worked him hard enough to increase fitness beyond a very minimal level. Then again my picture of a fit horse is different from most people's.
TeresaA makes a good point: Mag isn't working hard yet by endurance standards, but he's working harder than he ever has, and his body is changing to meet the work. And that's a good thing.
Sorry about your weather. We haven't had sn*w recently, but I'm getting tired of pelting rain and hail!
Sounds like Mag & Mara knew/felt something on that trail that humans cannot! Mag is looking much better at home, though he really can't look bad! I envy your getting to ride period. Though I am having fun working the Mini's 👌🏻
Aarene, of course you and Teresa are right - this is the most fit he's been, in a life of slackitude: ) I just keep seeing pics of Carmen and Fiddle and they are muscle girls, and my horse is the opposite.
Camryn, I cannot imagine it, cuz every ride is a question mark *sigh* Your minis in masks - wow, have you gotten them to stay on? I hate flies but snow isn't so great...
I love that you're getting out there and having so many good moments :)
Baby horses though, it feels like one good ride, then two bad ones. Mag seems like such a good boy and he's looking really well!
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