Good morning! Most of you are sleeping, so I'll tell you what is going on out the window. It's snowing! Pretty gusts are blowing in sheets down the sidewalks like powdered sugar, it can't melt, it's way too cold! Pretty safe to drive in, but all my inspiration to get outside and work just faded away. So I made coffee, and warmed up the old laptop.
Interesting how God chooses to teach me lessons in humility. In blessing me even more. How does that work, God? I know I shouldn't complain, and complaining to people about other people is gossiping. Agh.
It's this blackberry war. I found out the owner of No. 72 (the treed lot between our house and pasture) had *planted* them. On purpose. This is the lady who mentioned she wanted to do some gardening, so she was holding onto No. 72. I laughed inwardly, and then outwardly later to my man, the S's, and my mother in law. Wildly successful gardener, she has become, if she intended on growing blackberries. Now all the neighbors have them too from over her fenceline! My man said, "Next time you see her, ask if she'll help get rid of them." Good idea.
As I showed my mother in law our home for the first time, I heard this chainsaw nearby and I was annoyed, because I wanted her to experience the quiet of this rural area. As we stood in the yard and talked, suddenly the owner of No. 72 walked into our yard to join us. I wanted to disappear. She confronted me, "I am having some work done, and we'd like to take down some trees - can we drag them across your field?" "Sure....let me see what you're doing." "OH! You speak German too!" she said. Well yah: ) (She's the one who started with the English last time!) So I followed her and the noise got louder and louder...
and then I got my gentle lesson. A man with a chainsaw had made a tunnel through the blackberries (a tunnel because they go way up over our heads). He had cleared almost the entire fenceline I'd been working on. He turned off his chainsaw to say hello. He had blood trickling down his face from various cuts (See Melanie's story of how blackberries sent her mom to the hospital.)
"You've done this all in one day!" I was beaming. I continued, "Yesterday it took me an hour to get through one meter here!"
In this photo he was catching his breath. You can't see the blood, which he said is the "latest fashion": ) I couldn't believe my eyes, looking at the path he cleared. That helps so much.
The green paint indicates where I've cleared blackberries, and in No. 72, where the chainsaw man did too. You can also see the little green dot in the middle of our Hang, that is what my man and I did yesterdady together. Just a little green dot that took 3 hours.
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Yesterday my man and I went out to show our barbed wire to a man from church who would like some. They said it's illegal to use as horse fence in Germany. I wondered if it's illegal, why so many people ask me why I'm so insistent upon removing it? Dont' they, like, read Fugly? (I offered to show my man some of Fugly's "Consequences of Barbed Wire" photos. He politey refused.)
My man had his first experience cutting some barbed wire, until he said, "I have to play bass in church tomorrow, so I can't keep doing this." So we went over to our Hang and started cutting blackberries. He has a cold, so I was impressed that he lasted the entire three hours in the bitter wind. He kept blowing his nose.
We made what can only be called "a dent" in the Hang's blackberry cover. The dent would have been much, much smaller if I had been alone. I am so grateful he was so inspired to help, and he'd point to his pile of cut vines and say, "Look, my pile is bigger than yours" and I'd say, "My pile is more orderly than yours.": )
Finally it happened, we met our next door neighbor. His is the house right next to ours. He also had a chainsaw going, but then he stopped, leapt over our wimpy little fence between our Hang and his Hang, and greeted us with a huge smile. He already knew our names, and that my man is a teacher. We knew he's a cop. He insisted we talk with first names - that's new! He said we should use the informal language with each other, what a relief: ) I asked him what his Boxer's name is. Spanky. SPANKY? I couldn't believe it. He asked what it means. My man explained what spanking is. I laughed and wondered if I'm the only one who laughs: )
He was so nice - I think he's secretly an American, cuz 1.) big huge smile and 2.) laughter, lots of it, directly upon meeting us. And get this - he and his wife own two horses. She's an English riding instructor, and he said I will really like talking to her about horses - they can help with things like finding a good vet, and even dentist! He said they brought the horses home once, but it was an unbelievable amount of work to have horses at home, and paying for board is way easier. Well, aside from maintaining a fenceline, I think I'm pretty aware of the actual work involved, since we're in a Co-Op situation now. I didn't tell him that it's my lifelong dream to have my horse at home with me. I asked him a very big question, one that had been in the back of my mind since we found this house.
"Are there riding trails around here?" (please please please)
"Oh yes! You'll be delighted to see how many there are, around the watershed and beyond. You'll love it! You see those neighbor girls riding their horses by our houses often, there are trails back there (pointing)."
Oh thank God! I was so worried that I'd be riding on roads and roads and roads just to get to a trail. Since he's a cop, I said, "Oh, I'm so happy, and I just bought my 2009 horse license, so we're all legal on trails."
What blessings continue for me! I'm sure I didn't do anything to deserve it, so right now I'll just be thankful, and try to keep my mouth shut when I get annoyed with people. Here's a picture of our field, and if you look closely you can see a little hunter "booth" where hunters wait for deer. I have never seen a hunter before. Oh, but as we were walking to our field, a park ranger drove his Jeep across our field and out. I asked, "What on earth?" and the lady said, "He was feeding the wild animals. Not sure which." I hope he doesn't feed my horse too...well, an apple is OK.
I love my field. It's eye candy for me. It just needs new fencing and Baasha to make it perfect.
Hm. It stopped snowing. I should get outta here.
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I admire the fact that you have learned the language and are trying to assimilate the culture and customs. I had a friend who took a job in Germany and never did pick up more than a few words of German. She couldn't understand why the German people seemed so cold. She ended up quitting a great job and coming back to the states because she wasn't willing to immerse herself in the culture in which she was living. Sad.
Leah, I stopped saying "Hello!" to people on the street a long time ago. The problem is, when you do that here, people spend the day trying to figure out how they know you. Strangers just don't say hi to each other. Or smile.
But there are so many cute customs here that I enjoy. Like, all the holidays are so culturally relevant here, every one. Easter lasts 4 days, and all 4 days people (not strangers) are saying Happy Easter! to you. I've really got to learn this. First, learn the holidays, then learn how to really spread the joy about them. On this note, the Germans as a whole love to dress up their homes to match the seasons. Table centerpieces are homemade, and always reflect what is going on outdoors. People collect holly and evergreen branches in winter, to make their homes wintery. In spring, it's insane, all the gardens have colorful plastic eggs hanging from the trees. Homemade gifts are the norm, especially for wedding gifts.
I've tried to learn the language, and I'll keep struggling with it the next few years. It's a killer hard one, and I'm determined to get it. Being here helps: )
Stereotypes reflect reality, it's true. Americans are known for their false friendliness, which to me is just simple friendly politeness. Germans are cold. But friendships in Germany, once established, are warm and forever.
I just made the typical American mistake of forgetting to shop for groceries on Saturday, because all grocery stores are closed on Sundays. I've mostly adapted to this inconvenience, as well as always shopping before evening, when all the stores close. But tonight there was no food in my kitchen, and oops, it's Sunday. So we found our favorite Indian restaurant, yay!
Thanks for the compliment - it's really hard for me here sometimes!
~lytha
I adore blackberry syrup, but after reading Melanie's blackberry story, your story and many others who have problems with it growing crazy out-of-control...I do believe that blackberries are a scourge. Not unlike the Kudzu of the south in the USA.
Well at least the owner of #72 cleaning up a lot of it. Woot!!
Your field is GORGEOUS! Does it back up to national forest or public park land?
Will you have to protect Baasha from the dangers of hunters and bullets (orange sheet)? And will you have to post 'keep out' 'private property signs' so Baasha is safe from any mischief or unlocked gates?
I can just picture you and Baasha cantering across those lovely green fields.
And how wonderful that you have trails close by to hack on. Meet as many horse people as you can there and you'll be privvy to all the local horse news and information. :)
Oh! And how wonderful you have such wonderful neighbors next door...and horse owners, too! Yay!
~Lisa
Lisa, do we have national forests in Germany? I have no idea! One of those things I'll learn eventually. I don't really know anything about the trails near our new home - I look forward to finding out how extensive they are. The good news is our land, and the surrounding properties are all in, oh, how do you say it in English, "natural protection areas" so you are not allowed to build any new homes or buildings. You can add on, though, which is nice! This was very important for us because we wanted to be sure our area will retain its rural feel into the future. Of course, that's not guaranteed - the city can re-designate land when it wishes. But national law states that if they free up the protected areas for building, they have to open up new protected areas elsewhere, which they are loathe to do. Does that make sense?
I keep looking for this funny No Tresspassing sign that was common back in rural Washington - it had a picture of a gun and said "Any Questions?" hehehhe but we will need to be happy with our simple Do Not Enter signs and of course the mandatory Caution! Electric Fence! signs. We also have to have special insurance for people who cannot read, and wander into our land and get themselves hurt. Hm!
I've never seen a hunter here, but when I do, I'll talk to him and ask him if I need to wear an orange vest when I clean up poop from my pasture, hehe.
Funny, I was just enjoying those pics of my field, and imagining a good canter too! You can see the grass is frosty, I can't wait to see the place when the trees aren't naked and the flowers come up in the garden.
What a blessing to have horse people next door! They can help keep an eye on Baasha when we're not home. I'll be careful not to say provocative things like "Arabs kick Warmblood butt".
Oh, and I thought of you when the neighbor said "Do you have a Paint horse?" I guess he thought, American --> Paint horse owner. Doesn't he know that Quarter Horses are taking over Germany, state by state!? I think he was disappointed that I have an Arab, actually. So common, worldwide.
I think I'm gonna have to make a batch of pumpkin muffins or choc chip cookies to share with new neighbors!
~lytha, property owner noob
Maybe the neighbor who planted all the blackberries likes pie too! No I am not from the PNW and have never been there! Despite that, I have lived in 8 different states, perhaps I'll visit at some point.
Moving to a new country is certainly an endeavor, but I'm sure having your hubbie there sure helps...:)
--Mindy
Nice field, nice neighbors, and a nice hubby! You got it all.
You're moving to HEAVEN, girl: you have neighbors who have horses AND a chainsaw!
If they've got a weedwhacker and a rototiller, I'm gonna move in with you.
Leah Fry-
I am just curious- would you say that to someone who'd moved from another culture into America? Not that I don't agree with you. I do, actually. I just had a random thought- if you'd told someone who moved here that they should "assimilate" and "immerse yourself in the culture in which you are living" it would sound like they should give up their heritage.
People in America can have such a double standard against our American heritage, I think.
Did you just think that you had died and gone to heaven when you saw what that man had done!!! That is probably one of the nicest things ever!!!
It looks like your neighbors will be alright after all, doesn't it??? LOL!!! And hey, you have someone who may be willing to show you around all of those neat trails that are just waiting for you to find them. :)
PS-thanks for your kind words on my blog. Autonomic responses can be really beneficial, or really hindering, can't they??? I am glad that you weren't hurt worse!!!
Lytha you are indeed blessed! Sounds like your neighbours may become good friends. And No.72 is clearing up her blackberries!!
Your field is beautiful. I love how the land gently rolls.
Your field is BEAUTIFUL!!!
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